A couple of days ago, me Temong showed me this website that can give you a list of people who have deleted/blocked you from their MSN Messenger. So I entered my email address and password.. and to my surprise.. 11 email addresses came out. MY GOD! I thought I was this adorable young woman that everybody loves.. hehehe.. Those meanies!! People added me against my will, what could I do other than adding them to my list too, and when I rarely talk to them, they delete me.. mean mean people! Hehehe..
So! The very next thing that I did.. I took those people off my list. Revenge is GOOD! Not all though, I kept one of them. It was one that I had predicted would come out, and I was right. It's this dude who (I'm sure) is now in a much better place than he was when (I think) he deleted me from his list. I wonder when he will stop hating me and put me back on his list. I doubt that it will ever happen as he might have stopped hating me and completely forgotten about me. Which is good. But I'd rather restore the friendship, although of course wouldn't be completely, but.. yeah.. let us make this world a happy place to live in.
Anyway, what do you think about the phrase "forgive but not forget". I reckon BIG hypocrisy underlies it. It's like holding a grudge. What I get when someone says that, is that he wants people to think he is nice, cos he forgives.. however, he also keeps a list of bad things other people have done to him, so someday when another bad thing is done.. I don't know, maybe he'll take out the list and say "hey, I've forgiven you for this and this and that and now you do this.. but I forgive you" Hehehe.. not a good example, but yeah.. It doesn't make sense to me. Someone can forget but not forgive, not the other way around. When you remember someone's fault by heart, how can you forgive?
So when you hate someone and you don't wanna forgive him, just say it. Right? right? That's what I do.. and I think you should too. It might reduce the amount of hair falling off your head. Hehehe..
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Did you provide your username and password when you use that delete-checker service?
Now they got your account, don't be surprised if your contact list is behaving strangely from now on.
What they do is
- get your account
- check your contact list, get the ones you rarely message and show a subset of them to you as those who have deleted/blocked you (even when they really didn't)
- make you feel good/bad
- use your account most likely for spams
Remember that many people use the same password for MSN and email.
The hoax delete/block checker has led to many people complaining about contact disappearing/reappearing from their list, and private messages being logged and made public.
Good luck.
i was just about to tell you the same thing poul said. i came across this site some time ago, they asked your username and password for this checking function. but, hey, i saw the url of the website was dodgy (not a hotmail or msn official url) and i won't ever give my username and even worst disclose my password to them. pem, change your pwd fast fast.
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